Letter: What do we do if a child reports abuse?

I’ve been reading the media’s compelling coverage of the Larry Nassar case. One piece is missing: What should we consider on the off chance a child may disclose sexual abuse to us.

Should we play judge and jury and decide if the accused is someone who would do “something like that” to a child? Do we question the child and decide if they’re telling the truth?

If we are dependent on the person financially or emotionally, will this play a role in the action we take? Should we consider how reporting the suspect might impact the reputation of the suspect, the family, the school, the church or the organization? What are the options other than reporting?

Should we question the suspect? What if the suspect denies the accusation or promises to stop — what should we do then? Should we protect the child from possible retaliation by the suspect? What are the consequences for the child if we report, if we don’t report? Do we focus on keeping the child safe? Do we focus on keeping reputations intact?

What are the consequences for us if we report?

Editors note: Authorities urge you to contact child protective services or law enforcement if you suspect a child is being abused. In Washington, it’s the Department of Social and Health Services at www.dshs.wa.gov or call the Tri-City office at 509-585-3000 or 800-557-9671.

This story was originally published January 26, 2018 at 5:38 PM with the headline "Letter: What do we do if a child reports abuse?."