Dear Dave: My husband likes to borrow money on fix-up projects around the house. He says he knows how to manage money, and will pay the loans back quickly. The other day, he came to me for money to make the payment on the latest loan he took out. Then, he started fussing at me when I didn't have the money to make the payment. It's not the first time this sort of thing has happened. How can I make it stop?
This guy needs a swift kick in his rear end! He says he knows how to manage money, but he doesn't know how to save up to re-wire the garage?
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It sounds to me like you've got an overgrown teenager on your hands instead of a husband. It's bad enough that he can't take care of his own responsibilities, but then he turns around and fusses when you won't do it for him. That's ridiculous!
Marriage is all about unity. Once the rings go on those fingers it's a we thing, not a me thing. Husbands and wives should work together to form a game plan that will help them win in life, and that includes finances.
I think you should take the money he's asking for and use it to see a good marriage counselor. There are some real issues here that need attention. You guys need to deal with them, and create a real marriage, before this situation gets any worse!