The Jonson family of Pasco was changed irrevocably two years ago when Sandy Jonson, 43, was diagnosed with neuromyelitis optica, a rare and terminal disease of the central nervous system.
Sandys husband Dave, 44, has spent those two years caring for his wife as she degenerated and became partially paralyzed. She takes 40 different medications three times each day at a cost of about $3,000 per month and thats after insurance pays a share.
The familys fortunes took another turn for the worse about two months ago when 5-year-old Landon, one of the couples five children, collapsed after complaining about a tummy ache.
After a battery of tests, a doctor discovered during an exploratory surgery that Landons intestines and other internal organs were twisted and their blood supply had been cut off a relatively rare medical condition that Landon had since birth, but only recently caused him problems.
About 1 in 500 are born that way, but they very rarely have issues, Dave Jonson told the Herald. Somehow something happened and those organs got twisted up.
Landons initial prognosis was only about a 5 percent to 10 percent chance of survival, although that was upgraded to 95 percent after five surgeries and weeks in the hospital.
A nurse walks out of the operating room and ... is saying the best case is we have to take out all of your sons intestines, bowels and colon, remove three-quarters of them, he said.
Dave Jonson then was faced with the prospect of having to be in Seattle for weeks with his son who might not make it while leaving his terminally ill wife at home with no one to care for Landons 5-year-old twin brother. Sandy cant walk. Her left arm is paralyzed and she has partial paralysis in her right arm.
She is a person who was very active active in the community. She always did everything for all the kids, all the kids friends, Dave Jonson said. Now she depends on me to eat, to administer medications. She cant drive. She depends on me to get her to Seattle to see her doctors.
When a Pasco preschool offered to donate child care for Landons brother, Dave Jonson was able to temporarily juggle the demands of caring for his wife and child, but now the preschool is closing.
And Dave Jonson is running out of available time off from his job at Bechtel, and hes worried about losing his job altogether.
Now here I am faced with being over here with no way to find or afford day care, he said. Im having to go home with a son who will need full-time nursing care. I have a wife who needs care. No day care. No preschool. No income coming in.
Friends hope the Tri-City community will help cover some of the familys ongoing medical costs by donating to the Jonson Family Medical Fund at Chase Bank, a bank account set up by one of Dave Jonsons colleagues.
Dave Jonson said anything would help, but in the meantime, hes trying to focus on the positive.
My wife being alive is a miracle. My son being alive is a miracle. Dont ever take those blessings for granted, he said.
Contact Dave Jonson at firstname.lastname@example.org